Current mood: strong
Ahahahaha. Joke's on you. I am sitting here smiling because I have something on my mind. And I don't just mean the fact that I'm goin to Shoguns tonight for dinner with the family. I mean the way my life is leading in the fact that I have 4 reliable things in my life. Friends, family, my dog, and my own success. Hehe. That's not what's on my mind lol. But it's a good start. I have something on my mind that you wouldn't dare try to pry at lol. OH but mentioning it on here just to tease you is fun. I don't always write on here what I'm feeling or what exactly I'm thinking because of who reads this. Yes I admit it...there's a bit of secrecy even on here. Is that spelled right? Secrecy? Strange...oh well. SO being single is MUCH more fun when your friends are single too. Then you don't feel like the loneliest person on the planet as you are invited to dinner and to events watching everyone show up as couples. The single way is to bring your friend no matter what anyone thinks. You don't have to worry about what it leads to cuz you're both single and you can be yourself no matter what comes flying out of your mouth. I can say the most vulgur, wrong, or off-color comments and instead of my friends getting pissed off or offended...we laugh about it and I get the same shit shot right back at me. It's fun lol. If I were single and they weren't, it would seem more like I was trying to take someone else's man. NOT COOL. I'm not that type of person. I can honestly say that if the man has a woman and they are "together" then I don't even show interest in the bait. This is why I'm lovin my single life as I share it with my single friends. And by now you understand that the friends are guy friends. Yeah, cuz if they were female, then I would not have to explain it. It's obvious and understood when females are single at the same time, like my sister and I, that we WILL be spending time together and it's not frowned upon. I think it's hilarious that if I choose to spend time with my guy friend who is also single, that we are automatically seen as dating. Um...no. Just because I enjoy someone else's company does not put me in a relationship. We spend quite a bit of time together and I have to say that I haven't had this much fun with someone in a VERY long time. But we're not ready for relationships not only with each other but with ANYONE in general which makes it a perfect friendship really. Fun without the serious teeth pulling of AAAAAHHHHHHhh. right? Right. lol. Anyways, I found this on bumper stickers and decided that it was the perfect understanding of my friend that I am speaking of. I gotta say, I'm really happy where I am. lol. AND THAT...is the Sheer, honest, bare-naked truth :)M
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