3 types of men...two types of women

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Current mood: hopeful

So as I was sweating bullets thinking about how I would get everything done, and how I had slept too long due to my alarm not going off...yes so now fear of being fired kept me on my toes today. Whew. Glad that passed without any permanent scars. Anyways, I've decided that there are 3 types of men and two types of women out there. Let's start with women. I believe the two types of women are single and taken. No wordplay "seeing", "dating", whatever. IT'S STILL TAKEN. We'll let you know it too. And single ladies...you better watch out cuz we're on the prowl and either hating on men with a vengience or looking for one desperately...either way we're putting ourselves out there as single and/or available. Now men on the other hand are complicated. That's right...I'm saying men are more complicated than women in my oppinion. The three types of men are single loving women, taken, or single hating women. The first, they love women and are there for them but never seem to settle because either they're picking the wrong woman, or these women are "just friends". The taken ones are one in a million. This is the type that some woman has gotten a hold of and Ingeniously gotten to settle down and cator to the needs of the relationship (these men come with flaws ladies don't get too worked up)! Then there's the third kind....men who hate women. Now they don't hate ALL women, in fact, they tend to love women too much and so therefore are unfaithful or constantly jumping from woman to woman....or making empty promises that they can't keep...normally as a result of craving a mother figure. The woman that snaps them into shape will be the woman that everyone else hates because it looks like she owns him. Well, she does, but maybe that's what that man needs. There is one more type that I fail to mention because well it doesn't help me any...that is the one that is loving, totally understanding of our needs and will never let us down...unfortunately ladies...he's gay. sorry.

I'm wanting to find a man that can alter himself from one type to the other...excluding the type I keep finding myself drooling over...he should be able to be caring and loving, but then distant when we both need our down time. A best friend turned into a partner if you will. I almost had it this last time, but I forgot one key factor...the whole fact that he HATES women enough to disrespect them to the point that he makes them fall in love with him and then crushes them like cans to recycle for money to pick up a new one who is waiting patiently on the sidelines for him to choose her. Yeah. That single but loving men type of woman. Ass...anyways, he's gone, no worries, but you'd just think that a 31 year old would see what he's got and settle down before it's too late. Well he just lost a 23 year old but oh well, I've still got plenty of time in my life to figure out what I am doing and to find someone who appreciates me. I just have to give it time...let him find me this time maybe. Till then, I'm just having fun with my life. Maybe I'll run into someone who wants a partner in crime to spend all his time with and have a good time with as best friends (with benefits maybe) and until then...my friends fill that void....(without the benefits) lol.

Some of my girls are goin through the same thing, and all I can say is that they have been here for me no matter what my decisions, and I will be here for them. 100% whatever they decide to do, I'm here. I just hope they never have to feel what I've felt even though I believe it's made me stronger and a better person out of it all. I still love all of the people I have shared my life with. Even the ones who did me wrong...because I DID put my whole heart in it and love never dies...it may fade, but it's always there. Neither ink, tears, or time can cover up the love that you put out there in a relationship...whether it be friendship or sheer love in another.

THAT's right, once again, I said it...Love conquers all.