Monday, July 06, 2009
Current mood: sore
bhere are a few things in life that I have yet to figure out. OKAY, I take that back. There are more than a few but I think there are a few that actually haunt me every day that I grace this awesome planet. Such as…why is it so impossible to treat someone that we’ve been in a relationship with respect? I mean, we did claim to love them at one time and I’m sure it was for good reason. I made a comment today about how my ex is not a bad person he and I just don’t mesh. The way my friend reacted was as if I had told him that everyone lied and I had proof that the tooth fairy is real. Lol. I just don’t understand why we can’t remain friends after a break-up. We are ALL searching for the same thing right? We all do have ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends right? Wouldn’t it be insane if we all just realized that maybe some people just don’t belong together and that it would be alright for us NOT to slander each others’ names or pretend that person never existed? Although, that does seem better than the alternative of trying to stay together when it doesn’t work, still, we base relationships off of the fact that we like this person and want to spend time with them. We may even consider them our best friend…which is actually what should happen considering we are choosing to sleep by this person, spend endless nights with this person, and create a life with this person. Doesn’t it seem silly that when things go bad…then we just up and decide this person would look better 6 feet under? You should be able to laugh at the fact that you would attempt to ruin such a great friendship and be able to hang out afterwards no matter HOW badly it ended. Take your worst relationship and go back to when you first fell for that person…doesn’t it make you wonder how things went so wrong? I think after all of the bullshit, I have finally found a man that has decided to stay my friend after we have gone our separate ways. We actually saw each other face to face and didn’t name call or try to hurt one another. We chit chatted and then went about our day. Interesting…different…I like it. I wish it upon everyone.
And of course in other news....
I am currently in the process of spending my 4th of July at the lake. Strange to some of you I’m sure due to my first ex…however, I’m having a blast. I think at one point I actually forgot I was in the town I am in. Now get this…all 3 of the ex-boyfriends I speak mostly of are in this town and have spotted me. But I am having such a good time that it didn’t even faze me. I have a really good friend to thank for that. He let me stay with him and made sure to it that I had a good time. Unfortunately, I did miss out on partying with a couple of my friends tonight because well, I’m stuck where I am, but I will hopefully make up for it tomorrow night. I think my outlook on the lake has changed though. I have been swimming, and watched fishing and had a couple of AWESOME nights discovering new things and having an all around great time. And I mean GREAT TIME! So if he does read my blog, which he claims he doesn’t, but threatened to…I SAY THANK YOU!
The lake was awesome and I had the most incredible weekend. I am excited to say that I caught up with a friend of mine which over the last 4 days, has become like a best friend. I think we'll be kickin it alot more. OH and 4th of July is not one of my most favorite holidays lol. I seriously have not laughed so much in weeks. It was a constant good time. Pretty neat considering how I just got broken up with. It gave "Freedom" Day a whole new meaning! WHAT SON!?!?! That was awesome! Then today went out on a boat with my best friend and her man who happens to also be one of my friends. I think I found out that tubing on the lake...hurts BADLY and the sunburn is also a killer pain. I need cocoa butter spread all over my body. I have a volunteer. Might have to take him up on it. He helped me for the entire weekend with a burn so he's gentle enough I think...I think lol. We'll see.
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