who are you

All the small things...like people I started a post in order to spark interest in this one, I don't know how many people read this anymore. I used to have tons of followers on MySpace, yeah I said it, but people would look for my blogs and now I have no clue who looks at my FB, let alone, my blogs so...to those of you who keep up and know I have over a thousand of them, here's another trail of my brain I'll share with you...a life lesson, if you will. In every relationship there are two sides. And before you turn and point out that I'm single and hurt my feelings (just kidding) but seriously...by relationship I speak, ever so knowingly, from experience, about ANY relationship. Parents/children, lovers, friends, married couples, you name it...it's a relationship and this pertains to it. Don't judge quickly, cuz it's not always, it's just in trying times. Believe me, there will be tough times and situations and you will have to choose your role. Two types of people come out when situations occur in a relationship and these are the ones that I have noticed thus far...or at least they are the ones I can remember. There will always be: One person who cares with all of their heart/one who will hurt the loving one with lack of luster and caring. One who believes that truth is imperative to great love/and one who carries wool around to cover their eyes in order to "protect them from their lies" One who will keep open eyes and keep their heart, soul, and mind open/and one who keeps to themself until it festers to the point it blows up in the other's face. One who shares plans and dreams in hopes that the other will become part of them/and one who pretends they want it or say they want it until it's no longer convenient. One who fights for things to work out/one who fights about what has already been fixed. One who acts around that person, as well as away from them, like they are taken and happy about it/and one who is looking always. One who wants to move into something due to being excited about where things may go and get life started/and one who thinks it's too fast and cannot bring their mind to wrap around the word "FUTURE". One who likes to be in control/and one who goes with the flow One who only wants to make the other happy, because that makes them happy too/and one who will take advantage and never give back. READY FOR THIS ONE??? Are you mad because it's not always that way? OH NO!!!! Relationships aren't supposed to be that way! We don't have to be one and the other fill the other slot? You're saying KESHA, you are SO WRONG...well here's why I wrote this... F'in PROVE IT THEN...everyone wants to BE better. Everyone wants to be the good guy. Well guess what, YOU CAN BE! It depends on your attitude and how you treat the person you care about. If you base your decisions, not just on yourself, but on the way it will effect you and the ones you care about...then maybe it wouldn't be this way! Maybe I would have hope that I'm not gonna get the crappy end of the deal. Those of us who try are losing faith in chivalry, in true love, in the meaning of it all...if I am going to put my all into something and get screwed over anyways, why should I try? Why should you? WELL good people are still out there. They aren't all taken. They are waiting for someone good to come along and offer their time and friendship long enough to build something. Care More!!! lol. Give it a try, it's not so bad when both sides have a part in a fantastic relationship. Honestly, it's out there. I've seen it with my own eyes. I want it. I keep my heart closed due to recent events...many many recent events, however, I keep my eyes open for opportunity and hope. Something to catch my eye and keep me interested in ways that even my heart can't understand. I'm here, and I'm not the only one. Good people are lonely every day because others can't handle the pressure or refuse to open their eyes to something worth a try. So here I sit. AND THOSE OF YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP, keep your heart on the goal at hand...happiness. If your friends are happy, you will be too. If your parents are trying to help, let them. If you have difficulties in your life, keep true to yourself. I'm sure you and I both will get what is coming to us, and that thing, is beautiful.